Thursday, July 14, 2005

Gettin Hitched, Bitch

NO, NO, NO, NOT ME, obviously! There isnt a woman in her right mind that would marry me, which gives me a great idea- on sat i'll be heading to the psych ward with love in my eyes and a ring in my hand. But on a serious note, my cousin Phyllis is getting married!!!!! 

Ok, lets dive right in today..

Yesterday was the wedding rehersal dinner for my cousin phyllis and her soon to be husband richie.  I'll be walking down the aisle with the groom's brothers wife (got that?) as well as my cousin (by marriage) Dom. It's 2 guys for every girl. I'm not really nervous yet but as with everything i'll probably get nervous a half hour before the actual ceramony and become more figity than a heroine addict with a nervous head twitch. I get nervous when i friggen flush the toilet- i cant imagine what i'll be like when/ if i ever get married. I dont know why i should be nervous tomorrow though- yea i'm walking down the aisle but no1 is looking at me- they are all waiting for the bride. I'm like the blooming onion appetizer before the friggen 24 oz portor house steak..and these people are hardcore canivores. Atleast thats how im looking at it... Anyway the rehersal went down fine- without a hitch..(no pun intended). The dinner was good too. We went to thom thom's, its a local restaurant in wantagh...the food was ok- i got the skirt steak (sweet irony). I also received a gift from the bride and groom and it was pretty good 1 at that. First let me just say that it is an honor to be picked as part of the wedding party. I feel as if i should have gotten them a gift (besides the monetary 1 they'll receive). But yeah thay got all the guys the same gift, I know its hard to get a gift for every1, so they opted to get a nice humidor for the guys and some jewelery for the chix. I'm not a cigar man but the box is so nice it really can be used for anything, plus its got my initials engraved on it...i like it a lot. I really like just telling people i got a humidor..it sounds cool, humidor lol. Soooooooooo the wedding is tomorrow and i'll be out and about all day starting at 1:30..so dont call me- which im sure no1 will anyway but theres kind of a story to that....Lets just hope it doens rain like the dickens tomorrow as huricane or tropical storm dennis arrives or maybeits huricane iris- i dont know but i hope its nice up until like 8 then i dont care if ti pours. 

Back to what i eluded to earlier, i feel a sort of divide happening amungst my friends, myself included. I could be going crazy here and i hope to god that i am, but i feel as if there is a shift going on and some people are being brushed aside. Now there always was little cliques within our clique and certain people would call people and certain people wouldnt call people but we always were friends no matter who called who. I remember when my friends jimmy and mike were having their differences, i did everything in my power to try and get them back together agin and i had some success but eventually they did go their seperate ways..sort of. But now im not even going to try to stop it cuz somehow i feel as if im in the middle of it all. It seems to me, and again this is through my eyes which are in deep need of new corrective lenses, that tribal lines seem to be breaking and friends are turning into more of acquaintances and its kinda sad really. I have always held my friends in the highest reguard and if there is 1 thing that i truely i love it's wrerslting lol. but if there is two- it would be my friends and wreslting  (sometimes friends even more so than wrestling) And its border line tragic that people would make plans, or not ivite other people that they consider to be friends or make plans that seem to be done out of spite for another person, or even not help a friend at all in order to prove a point. I'm not perfect nor do i claim to be but i feel as if everytime i have done something wrong- i try and resolve it- i also feel as if other people dont share that philosophy. Now this will prob. all blow over cuz this sort of thing happens with friends but we have always been so close i feel this is kind of new ground. i guess thats all i really wanted say about that right now.

I dont know who reads this thing, or why any1 would, but its my boyn Mike's birthday today, so Sim if ur 1 of the few that reads this drivel- happy birthday man- lets go out on sat night and celebrate!

The Yanks, aka my American Heros  had a kick ass victory tonite- battling back constantly to beat the villans of baseball known as the boston red sox. Whats even sweeter is that Arod hit an A-Bomb of the sinister 1 himeself curt the squirt schilling. GOOD GAME!

I got a raise today- im so exited about it- i wasnt even gonna ask for 1 cuz i felt like i was gonna leave in a month or so anyway but i looked at my pay check and there she was!!! Its only a 50 cent raise but it was nice to see. I'm not gonna wanna leave that place..eh once i get offered some mucho dinero it will be adios amigos el saf-t-swimos.

You know what i hate: when people dont believe me. Like at work. People ask to schedule a class for a certain day and i say "nope nothings available" and then they say "really?" like im putting 1 over on them and when they leave i'l have a friggen big hardy laugh about it and tell all my co-workers how i really got mrs. hellobowitz (made up name) good today. Why is it so hard to believe me. I'm not gonna turn around and go, gotcha! or say -u know what- i did find something- i wouldnt have found it unless u said "really" in such an astounded voice. Believe me- i know what im doing.

Aight i got a big day coming up in less than 24 .. no check that, holy crizap less than 10 hrs so i gotta get some sleep. talk to u naggers soon.

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